Please welcome this real story from Ayesha J. Gallion, an author and freelance writer who taught high school English for 10 years. Ayesha writes about the heavy decision-making process that comes with leaving teaching… and the surprising benefits that came along with it!
After almost 10 years, I resigned from my position as an English teacher at a magnet school for the arts in Newark. I was offered a senior position as a communications representative for the largest integrated plastics manufacturer in North America.
I was straddling fear and courage; the familiar and the unknown; complacency and unrest. I accepted the position.
The culture of humility and nobility that once kept me in the classroom no longer exists within the confines of modern urban education. In many ways, teachers are martyrs of sorts. I did not want to be so selfless anymore. All other parts of my life yearned for my return.
The often vacuous attempt to disaggregate data extracted from district-mandated assessments was embarrassing to behold, and I couldn’t remain in a space of victimization and frustration. I knew that if I wasn’t prepared to usurp the system, I had two options: become apathetic or seek a living outside of education. And since being apathetic is only a temporary coping mechanism, I realized that leaving was more sustainable.
I didn’t care about the pension, the “good benefits”, or the job security. I did care about the students that I would not be able to greet again in September. However, this is the necessary heartache that any parting teacher must anticipate. Chances are they will respect your decision; for they want you to experience all that you have taught them to attain, which is an authentic life.
There were colleagues I didn’t necessarily want to leave either. They had seen me through many phases in my life including pregnancy, divorce, and graduate school. The administration were often in my corner and respected my desire to teach literature and writing. Many of my colleagues were funny, kind, insightful. I wondered: What if my new colleagues were mean, short-tempered, and egotistical? But what if they were content, inspirational, and creative?
The risk to leave was undeniable, meanwhile the option to remain put my own evolution at risk. I was lucky enough to resign after school was out. But the closer my start date neared the more wildly the pendulum swung, from anxiety and then back to bravery.
Everything turned out just fine; transcendentally joyous, in fact.
From proofing manuals, interviewing manufacturing presidents, editing/writing for the corporate newsletter, and checking the AP Stylebook and Merriam-Webster every chance I get, I am in my element. I have the added bonus of learning all about the engineering processes of the plastics industry along with branding and marketing strategies.
My mind is alight with curiosity and stimulation every single day. My ideas and solutions are encouraged for logical, real world applications versus intangible variables beyond my control.
Work-life balance is no longer an anomaly. Once upon a time ,“normal business hours” sans summer vacation scared me. I thought life would be one monotonous roll of toilet paper. But when you love what you do everyday and you are inspired by the innovation of the culture in which you create/work – it is not a burden! Actually, an 8:30 to 5:30 gig that respects my ideas, allows me time to refuel, and uplifts the tenets of compassion and creativity are very beneficial.
I have an uninterrupted, guilt-free lunch where I can down a bowl of soup at Barnes and Noble, take an exercise class, or walk he company’s tree-lined grounds. At my desk, I drink water or tea all day and go to the bathroom when I need to as well.
The other parts of me are blossoming. Had I not left the classroom, they may have withered away, never to be fully applied in this robust fashion again.
Leap Into Life
Why simmer in any system that fosters dysfunction or maintains a culture of internal and cyclical sabotage? The educational industry – from its laughable Common Core Standards that read like Artificial Intelligence penned them to the removal of key staff members to balance budgets – is in need of major reform.
The other evening I was telling a friend, who also began a new career, about the intriguing aspects of my new job.
She said, “The old Ayesha is back! I can feel it!”
Two weeks before, another friend, who finalized his move cross-country to be more in his natural element, chided me for my fear of being inadequate. “They hired you because you are the perfect person for the job. Now all you have to do is own it and you’ll be fine.”
A familiar person is resurfacing. And I own and believe in my value. I yearned to be whole again, and if this is what getting back to me feels like, then I’m in for the ride of my life – with excellent benefits, vacation, and a pension, mind you.
Thank you for sharing your story, Ayesha, including the happy ending!
Do you have a question for Ayesha about Life After Teaching?
As a side note, here are Ayesha’s thoughts on the process of actually securing a job outside of teaching:
I found a new job as a communications representative by first noting my skill set I wanted to capitalize upon and enjoy executing, namely editorial- or public relations-based. I also knew that the content/industry within which I wanted to work was either residential, commercial, or industrial designing or manufacturing. I cross referenced companies that fell into those design categories and looked for vacancies that aligned with my skill set.
I perused everything from public relations agencies specializing in hospitality design to online retailers — anything with an opening for content production in those markets. I found my current job via a good old job board like Indeed. However, I strongly do not suggest limiting one’s search to popular job boards. Learn about the manufacturers, innovators, firms, and other entities — from boutique-sized to conglomerates — in the industry that inspires you and then view the job board on the company’s or its affiliates’ website.
Anu Noremaceel says
I am very impressed with your story. I share the idea about ‘becoming apathetic or seek a life outside of teaching,….the truth is that I feel obligated to the lives I lead. I’ve been teaching for the past 19 years and I’ve had opportunities to leave the classroom but hesitated…..and still is. I do believe that you made the right decision….you mentioned about your guilt-free, uninterrupted lunch which most educators like me crave for. It might sound ridiculous but it’s a struggle trying to use the restroom under extreme circumstances…even in disciplining ourselves, it’s hard at times.
I have a passion for writing and I’m looking forward to continue in education (out of teaching) into research to help modify and develop curriculum that best suits different populations. I know they’re quite a few out there but I believe I can contribute to making a difference.
Your story has motivated me to seek opportunities that align with my skills.
Thank you for sharing. Good luck in al your endeavors.
Dear Anu — I’m so glad to have connected with your need to move into an area that is most suitable for your talents. I truly don’t think there is any other approach that is more compassionate or fair to ourselves. Just because you leave the classroom doesn’t mean that you are selfish, especially if you want an uninterrupted lunch (smile).
I wish you the best of luck in your writing and I hope you inspire others who aim to move outside of the classroom, whether in their disciplines or not.
Doni A says
Thank you for sharing your experience after teacher. As a teacher myself for the past 9 years I have come to the same conclusion you have expressed. I am currently searching for my path.
I appreciate your feedback (smile) — and I know for sure that wherever you talents need you to be…is where you will end up!
I found this site as a veteran elementary educator of 31 years. I work with some wonderful people and administrator, but after all these years I am exhausted. I need to find something else using my talents while still having something of myself left for my family. I’m married with 2 children still at home, and I’m the major breadwinner. I’m really not even sure where to start. Any suggestions are welcome.
Sarah G says
Thank you for your comment, Amy, I hope you can find some answers on the blog and in the eBook!